HOW TO BE YOURSELF IS I DONT LOVE MYSELF?

 First thing first hello there how are you?

this is my first time writing something here and l will try to be as helpful as l can get.

If you are insecure and do not really want to change because of some trend on social media platforms like Tik Tok or Instagram but every time that you look at your phone you see some pretty ass model and you start to feel bad about yourself. 

Here are some tips from the insecure teen girl herself.

first of all, look at the mirror and see yourself without makeup without any mask that modern society wants you to wear.

and if you are a guy do the same we are not here to be parting anybody to stupid groups.

First, look at all the bad things about yourself.

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**Embracing Self-Acceptance: A Journey Towards Self-Love**

Make two lists: one detailing things you dislike about yourself, ranked from the least bothersome to the most irksome, and another with things you love about yourself. Each day, cross off one thing you dislike, starting from the least bothersome. This isn't about changing yourself but accepting who you are.

**Formerly "Beautiful" Trends That Have Changed**

Over time, societal trends in beauty have shifted. What was once considered attractive may not be valued as much today:

1. **Slim Waists:** The emphasis on slim waists has evolved to appreciate diverse body shapes.

2. **Pale Skin:** Healthy looks and diverse skin tones are now more valued than just paleness.

3. **Ultra-Thin Bodies:** Varied body types are appreciated more now than excessively thin figures.

4. **Overdrawn Lips:** Natural looks are preferred over overly enhanced lips.

5. **Artificially Shaped Eyebrows:** A more natural appearance is now favored over heavily shaped brows.

6. **Small or Shapeless Buttocks:** Natural curves and diversity in body shapes are more appreciated.

7. **Excessive Tanning:** Healthy skin care and sun protection are prioritized over excessive tanning.

8. **Extreme Dieting:** A healthy relationship with food and exercise is emphasized over extreme diets.

9. **Excessive Perfume Use:** Subtle fragrances are more favored over overpowering scents.

10. **Hairstyles:** Diverse styles that match individual expression are favored over outdated trends.

**Reject Others' Opinions and Embrace Yourself**

Especially in your teenage years, don’t let others define you. Spend time with loved ones, and remember, your skin isn't a canvas for judgment but a testament to your experiences. Avoid excessive makeup; your skin deserves to breathe. The same goes for those engaged in fitness—train for health and confidence.

**We All Fade Away Eventually**

Remember, superficial judgments don’t define us. Focus on what you accomplish in this brief life. Appearance is transient, but your impact can be enduring.

WHAT IS YOUR THEORY ABOUT TRENDS AT THIS ERA?

CAN YOU GIVE US YOUR EXPERIENCE?

IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTION DONT HESITATE TO ASK😄